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A little Yoga and meditation, then Neil Gaiman for breakfast...with breakfast? Whatever 😂

side note: I just had to look up how to HTML emojis because apparently, I cannot write without them. 🤦

Anyway - Gaiman, on MasterClass, where he apparently sits on the board. Today is about character and dialogue and I am struck by the idea that you can find yourself in your characters. And you are not to be alarmed by this if, for example, you are writing about a murderer. You just dig and somewhere in a cesspool of your mind exists the personality needs of a murderer. Fascinating

Research, but do not get stuck in research. This reminds me of analysis paralysis (altho he is not talking about that). Anne Bogel has an interesting book on analysis paralysis called Don't Overthink It

When you have a lot of characters wandering around, you need to HELP THE READER. Enter "funny hats." Something different that makes the character different from other characters. OMG movie and tv series directors - when you have a full cast of white men with medium-short brown hair and a bit of facial hair...you make me WEEP. It's like FoxNews and the endless parade of leggy blondes talking news

On yesterday's Walk With Dog, a podcast and audiobook time for me as I DO.NOT.RUN., I found a novel idea from the Before Breakfast podcast - reading big things in small bites over time. Laura Vanderkam has, in the past few years, read War and Peace and all of Shakespeare's works in this manner. Check out the 8 minute pod for more details. 

One important thing, if you have started reading my feed, I am going to suck as a writer for a bit. I have taken far too long away from writing and my clarity can only improve. Thanks for sticking around. Love to hear your thoughts

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 Astronaut Chris Hadfield discusses the mission-critical ammonia leak on the International Space Station. I am struck by the fact that he can speak Russian, so he can communicate with his crewmates, and the calmness of the voices from the actual incident. He talks of service before self in a way that I hope resonates with people - as much as he wants to be the one to go outside for the spacewalk and repair, as commander he recognizes there are others who are better suited to the task.

He also talks about how years of training has changed how one thinks and reacts to situations, a reprogramming, if you will...but not a negative one.

My summary of his takeways -

Build your skill set and then act on it - trust yourself. Shit will happen, that is normal. Use your life to prepare for that shit. Nothing is perfect, you can always improve. When the shit is over, look back and determine what you could do better. The next crisis can include that knowledge in your toolkit

sidenote - views from space are stunning. The green envelope of light that dances over the world is almost unbelievable
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 30 minute video of Voss talking about his first hostage negotiation at a bank in NYC. 

Interesting points I took from this talk -
  • you can be on and off the phone with a suicidal person in around 20 minutes if you have been properly trained on how to help them. Voss spent 5 mos working on a suicide hotline before he was chosen for negotiation training with the FBI. He says it was invaluable, teaching him how to reach a person where it counts
  • being the person to "have the last word" so that you are in charge of ending a conversation, and you must be the one to end a conversation, gives you the upper hand. While he was talking about this in terms of his job, I was thinking of it in terms of abusers and bullies.
  • give someone an out. Don't lock them into a position or force them to double down. Many will take the out if it is offered
  • tone of voice makes a difference - shouting "PUT THE GUN DOWN" will trigger a fight or flight response, calmly and firmly saying "put the gun down" is more likely to get the reaction you need

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