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I am listening to the audiobook version of Four Hundred Souls, a series of essays edited by Ibram X Kendi and Keisha N. Blain. In this essay, I discovered words by Ella Baker that resonated strongly with me.

 
"I have always felt it was a handicap for oppressed peoples to depend so largely upon a leader, because unfortunately in our culture, the charismatic leader usually becomes a leader because he has found a spot in the public limelight." ~ Ella Baker

 
This lines up nicely with my own pat phrase - Never believe your own press - without the "oppressed peoples" aspect, of course. Ms Baker was a strong proponent of organizing from the bottom up, emphasizing the "roots" part of grassroots in an organization. I am fascinated by the other quotes I have found about her and intend to study up more on her life. I have put a biography of her life on hold at the library.

Relating to the above quote, she also said 
"There is also the danger in our culture that because a person is called upon to give public statements and is acclaimed by the establishment, such a person gets to the point of believing that he is the movement."

In direct contrast, Martin Luther King, Jr stated

"Leadership never ascends from the pew to the pulpit but invariably descends from the pulpit to the pew."

While it is a quote on standing on its own without context, a little digging has shown it came from King setting up the management of his church and that this stems from "an unconditional willingness of the people to accept the pastor's leadership." While he goes on to say that nothing can happen without the enthusiastic participation of lay members and their assumption of equal responsibility for implementing his plans, it appears in what I am reading that the emphasis is on HIS plans. So naturally, I lean much more towards Ms Baker's mindset. 

In many ways, this is an almost stereotypical male/female thought process on leadership and this freeform documentation of my thoughts on an especially cool quote that resonated with me has definitely taken an unexpected turn!

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How one behaves in the face of stress says a lot about them as a person. Do you yell at service people? Do you break down and cry when things don't go your way? Is that crying anger and frustration or despair and hopelessness? Do you take a deep breath and move on to Plan B?

I have been all of those things at different times, based on overall stress level and emotional maturity. And I suspect if we were honest, we would all say the same. 

This quote is also the trope that drives much of popular culture stories - the archetypes in our best selling novels and big hit movies. When the going gets tough, the tough get going. The gas station attendant turned leader in all those zombie apocalypse stories, the reason why teenagers save the world in so many series. We need to see, in fiction at least, that we will step up out of our mundane lives and meet the moment.
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Somewhere in my saved-to-listen list of podcasts was a Nov 22, 2022 episode of the Ezra Klein Show (NYT Opinion) about The Reading Mind. He and researcher/scholar/author Maryanne Wolf discuss the ideas around reading, listening, consuming information from many different angles and I could have listened for another hour longer!

This is precisely what has led me to revive this languishing account and start using it for something very different from its original intent. I felt like I was oversaturated with information, which I love to learn about, but had no way to dig deeper and reflect on connections I was actually making while I was reading or learning.

Telling my 19 yr old son about what I was hearing as we were making dinner led to a further discussion about the intersection of ADHD and the way information is presented to us, how that manner of constant and increasing instant gratification and skim reading contributed to existing ADHD and in some cases could even be the cause. That is absolutely not to take away from the reality of ADHD and in no way feeds into the simplistic and unrealistic "solution" of "less screen time." It exists, executive (dis)function is a problem, there are solutions both behavioral and medicinal. But we need to recognize the contribution of how our world is built. Listen to this portion of the interview regarding the popular children's television show, Cocomelon:

...which kids love and adults hate but they talk about in this feature how they've set up a room in the the place makes Cocomelon where they will have a kid watching the show and set up next to it is another screen that shows an adult just doing normal household tasks, just sort of wandering around doing whatever you do in house and if the child becomes distracted from Cocomelon by what the adult is doing, they go back to the edit and they amp up the interestingness that cuts the whatever makes a Cocomelon episode interesting and it was so dystopic right that the level of engineering I mean the hyper saturation of the colors the constant cuts and so I mean a little bit like a hyper sugary cereal or whatever what his system is learning to find worth paying attention to... right, like how hard it is for the world to measure up to that...as it is for me - I'm going to bring this to me in a second, I'm not just putting this on little kids - but I know every time I put him there, it is training, right, it is training what is interesting and what is not

The entire interview is worth a listen, that particular part was just so horrifying. They do not, in their discussion, "blame" parents and the interview is actually about the act of reading and consumption of information, not just about kids. But good god. It's like the methods used by designers of gambling establishments to keep gamblers in the room, losing money.

Note: the transcript I found is riddled with errors, clearly an AI transcript with little to no human intervention, and annoyingly the audio connected to each paragraph actually starts 2 paragraphs before the play button for it, but it is a way to, no irony intended, skim the podcast and listen to particular parts of it either again or to see if you want to commit to listening to the entire thing.

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A little Yoga and meditation, then Neil Gaiman for breakfast...with breakfast? Whatever 😂

side note: I just had to look up how to HTML emojis because apparently, I cannot write without them. 🤦

Anyway - Gaiman, on MasterClass, where he apparently sits on the board. Today is about character and dialogue and I am struck by the idea that you can find yourself in your characters. And you are not to be alarmed by this if, for example, you are writing about a murderer. You just dig and somewhere in a cesspool of your mind exists the personality needs of a murderer. Fascinating

Research, but do not get stuck in research. This reminds me of analysis paralysis (altho he is not talking about that). Anne Bogel has an interesting book on analysis paralysis called Don't Overthink It

When you have a lot of characters wandering around, you need to HELP THE READER. Enter "funny hats." Something different that makes the character different from other characters. OMG movie and tv series directors - when you have a full cast of white men with medium-short brown hair and a bit of facial hair...you make me WEEP. It's like FoxNews and the endless parade of leggy blondes talking news

On yesterday's Walk With Dog, a podcast and audiobook time for me as I DO.NOT.RUN., I found a novel idea from the Before Breakfast podcast - reading big things in small bites over time. Laura Vanderkam has, in the past few years, read War and Peace and all of Shakespeare's works in this manner. Check out the 8 minute pod for more details. 

One important thing, if you have started reading my feed, I am going to suck as a writer for a bit. I have taken far too long away from writing and my clarity can only improve. Thanks for sticking around. Love to hear your thoughts

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 Astronaut Chris Hadfield discusses the mission-critical ammonia leak on the International Space Station. I am struck by the fact that he can speak Russian, so he can communicate with his crewmates, and the calmness of the voices from the actual incident. He talks of service before self in a way that I hope resonates with people - as much as he wants to be the one to go outside for the spacewalk and repair, as commander he recognizes there are others who are better suited to the task.

He also talks about how years of training has changed how one thinks and reacts to situations, a reprogramming, if you will...but not a negative one.

My summary of his takeways -

Build your skill set and then act on it - trust yourself. Shit will happen, that is normal. Use your life to prepare for that shit. Nothing is perfect, you can always improve. When the shit is over, look back and determine what you could do better. The next crisis can include that knowledge in your toolkit

sidenote - views from space are stunning. The green envelope of light that dances over the world is almost unbelievable
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 30 minute video of Voss talking about his first hostage negotiation at a bank in NYC. 

Interesting points I took from this talk -
  • you can be on and off the phone with a suicidal person in around 20 minutes if you have been properly trained on how to help them. Voss spent 5 mos working on a suicide hotline before he was chosen for negotiation training with the FBI. He says it was invaluable, teaching him how to reach a person where it counts
  • being the person to "have the last word" so that you are in charge of ending a conversation, and you must be the one to end a conversation, gives you the upper hand. While he was talking about this in terms of his job, I was thinking of it in terms of abusers and bullies.
  • give someone an out. Don't lock them into a position or force them to double down. Many will take the out if it is offered
  • tone of voice makes a difference - shouting "PUT THE GUN DOWN" will trigger a fight or flight response, calmly and firmly saying "put the gun down" is more likely to get the reaction you need
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 I try not to make new year resolutions as it is a sure fire way to NOT have something happen. I'll consciously sabotage my efforts. I do attempt to identify interesting and useful things I can do tho. That's different than "I'll lose 10 lbs" or "I'll run every day" (as if!) so...here goes

 

I read and consume a lot of interesting information. I want to, imperfectly tho it may be, document what I take from my learning. This feeds nicely into my desire to write. Who knows, maybe the act of writing up what I see and learn will improve my actual writing. It will certainly make me more present in the moment

 

So...here goes

 

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